Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Parable of the Grape Tree

Parable of the Grape Tree
By Catherine Keddington Arveseth
http://www.ldsmag.com/lds-church-updates/article/6403?ac=1

The shock on her face was visible. My oldest daughter (age 5) burst into the kitchen shouting her discovery. “Mom! We have a grape tree in our backyard!” I looked at the delicate bounty dangling from her fingers and sure enough, it was a cluster of perfectly round concord grapes. Her twin sisters, hot on her heels, bounded up the stairs to thrust their own prize under my nose. I stopped swiping food from the boys’ high chairs and followed them outside to our unruly backyard.

Two months ago we moved into a new (old) house. The backyard, along with everything else, spoke neglect. But I loved the ornate brick wall, the long stretch of grass for kids to run on, the winding perimeter of a garden. It was a weedy garden but I hoped to reclaim it – turn it into something colorful, maybe even fruitful.

The girls ran to the wall, jumping, pointing, picking and plopping. One grape after another disappeared into their mouths as they chattered about this splendid surprise growing outside their bedroom windows.
I hadn’t even noticed the vine. But there it was – tall and tangly, bent by the weight of lip-puckering grapes. I let the girls pick their own stash, rinse them in the sink and put them on the table for dinner. In a world where children can grow up believing all food grows in grocery stores, the “grape tree” (inappropriately named for it’s soaring tree-like structure) was a novelty at our house for days.

A week later while washing dishes in the kitchen, I looked out at the grape tree and noticed a fleck of pink. No orange. Wait – maybe it was red. I squinted and leaned forward. Handfuls of sunset orbs hung from the vine. They looked like peaches. But how?

I hurried out to the tree and sure enough – awkwardly perched in the highest branches of the vine were peaches in threes. “Girls! We have a peach tree growing out here!” I lifted them up one at a time to feel the unmistakable fuzz of a peach.

Then I bent down to inspect the root system. A bunch of slender trunks were clumped together. Two appeared to be the vine, one I traced upward to a lonely peach limb, and another, to my surprise, was a gangly old plum tree. Over time, it seemed that the vine had slithered its way up both trees, wrapping and


curling, until both plum and peach were almost completely disguised.

Two weeks after our grand discovery, the grapes sweetened and neighbor children carted them home in pails. Tonight, we cut into our first peach and savored every slice.

How can nature go so boldly against the law of the harvest? No pruning, thinning, training, or attention. Nothing deliberate or sweat-inducing. Yet the tree bore fruit. Delicious, generous, and without price.

One look at my own spiritual vineyard and I see a similar neglect. Birthing our second set of twins this last year has been more than intense. I haven’t made it to the temple, haven’t fasted regularly, and it’s rare when I can stay for an entire block of church. My scripture study has been less than stellar and my sleepy personal prayers seem to fall short.

I am immersed in my children. It is that season. But maybe there is a parable at work here. Maybe I am like the grape tree – still bearing fruit (although disguised to most), still growing, still reaching for light.

I can feel the Lord of the Vineyard nearby, pruning and digging about. So I kneel weary and make my meager but best offering. To my surprise, He presses fruit into my palm – delicious, generous, and more than enough.

“I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing” (John 15:5).

Monday, September 27, 2010

Family Home Evening...

http://www.ldsfamilyfun.com/

THIS IS THE SHORT VERSION: There is a longer version for older kids.


1. Sing: Children’s Songbook #176 “Tell Me, Dear Lord.”


2. Read: Exodus 3:10-12

“Come now therefore, and I will send thee unto Pharaoh, that thou mayest bring forth my people the children of Israel out of Egypt.

And Moses said unto God, Who am I, that I should go unto Pharaoh, and that I should bring forth the children of Israel out of Egypt?


And he said, Certainly I will be with thee; and this shall be a token unto thee, that I have sent thee: When thou hast brought forth the people out of Egypt, ye shall serve God upon this mountain.”

3. Watch: Watch chapter 11 from the animated Complete Learning System Moses DVD. (Video clip is also
provided for viewing online.)

4. How did Moses find out what the LORD wanted him to do? (Discuss ideas.)

“God called unto him out of the midst of the bush...” (Exodus 3:4)

5. What did the LORD tell Moses He wanted him to do?

(Discuss ideas.)

God told Moses to tell Pharaoh to release the children of Israel. Moses said, “Who am I, that I should go unto Pharaoh...” (Exodus 3:11)


6.How did Moses react to the LORD’s request? (Discuss ideas.)

Moses complained of being slow of speech and was reluctant to perform the mission God had called him to do. (Exodus 4:10)

President Hinckley taught, “It is not always easy to be obedient to the voice of the Lord. We may feel inadequate, but we can draw comfort from the conversation Moses had with Jehovah, who called him to lead Israel out of Egypt... “Now therefore go, and I will be with thy mouth, and teach thee what thou shalt say” (Ex. 4:12). Gordon B. Hinckley, Ensign, Jul 1995 © Intellectual Reserve, Inc. All rights reserved.

7. Have you ever had feelings of inadequacy when you’ve been asked to do something? (Discuss ideas.)

8.How can the story of Moses’ conversation with the LORD help us overcome our feelings of inadequacy? (Discuss ideas.)

“God gives us messages of instruction or encouragement to enable us to do His will. Often this is to prepare us for a specific task. This was the case with Moses in the message of the burning bush. We should keep our lives in order so that when we receive a burning bush type of message telling us what the Lord wants us to do we will be able to respond.” James E. Faust, Liahona, May 2004 © Intellectual Reserve, Inc. All rights reserved.

9. Why is it important to do what the Lord asks us to even if we are afraid? (Discuss ideas)

“If we will try with faith and prayer and resolution, we can accomplish great good, especially for our own souls. May we be willing and obedient, that we may eat the good of the land. (Isa. 1:19) May we place our trust in our Father in Heaven, to go forth with


What you need:

A copy of the of the “Burning Bush” activity (art work included with this lesson) scriptures, tape and scissors.



Preparation:

1. Print out the “Burning Bush” activity.

2.Cut out.

3. Tape the four sections of the bush together by overlapping edges to match.




Prep Time: 3 minutes

Cook Time: 2 minutes
Directions:

1.Combine milk, sugar, butter and cocoa in medium sauce pan.
2.Cook on medium until mixture boils; stirring continually.
3.Continue stirring while mixture boils for two minutes.
4.Remove from heat. Add vanilla.
5.Stir in chow mein noodles until completely covered with chocolate mixture.
6.Drop tablespoonsful of the mixture onto large sheet of wax paper to form chocolate bushes.

Ingredients:

•1/2 cup milk
•2 cups sugar
•1 cube butter or margarine
•1/4 cup baking cocoa
•1 t. vanilla
•3 cups chow mein noodles
•1 cup candy corn

Treat Time:

Give each family member a chocolate bush. Press leaf flames (candy corn) onto your bushes to create your Burning Bush cookie.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Spray Paint


I just love spray paint.


It amazes me that I can get a project done with just ONE can of spray paint.

My new project is Henry's room. We are changing it to be more a "kids room" rather than a guest room.
We first did it as a "big boy room more geared for a guest, no real cute fun stuff. Then I decided, hello it is Henry's room more than when we have guest.
So you know me.... I'm changing his room. I'm pretty excited!!!
The completed project pics will come sooooon, here is a sneak peak of the new bedding colors, (green, cream and brown)!

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Ruffles and Roses

Cute shirts from "Downeast Basics"... I'm slowly getting into all the fluff on the shirts. They always look so cute on everyone else. :)







Sunday, September 19, 2010

Our little monkey Henry


Henry is our little monkey! He climbs on everything and the other day I found him on top of one of the tables in the living room. He sure does use his resources and used the couch to climb right up. He had that look like "i'm king of the room". It was cute but scary, this baby has no fear... just so curious.

Today after nap time I went to get him and I was greeted with a wet diaper in his hand and smile on his face. That little stinker got his diaper off and was so proud of himself. SO GLAD IT WAS ONLY PEE!! :)

Oh we just adore our little man!!!!

Thursday, September 16, 2010

My top 8 things that made me smile lately

Soccer Star: Our sweet Hunter boy is on a new soccer team called the "Hammerheads". He played his first game on Monday. He even kicked a goal in!








Crafts and Cute kids: I just love "Micheals Craft Store". They have the best kids crafts. So easy, fun and they kept Hunter and his buddy Gordon busy while I made lunch. Hunter is one kid that could do crafts all day, every day. He sures loves to create!





New Kitchen Towels: Sometimes the simplest things in life make me the happiest. I have needed new kitchen towels for awhile so I smiled when I found these at Target. No more stinky dish towels. :)




Coupons, Coupons, Coupons: My friend Stacy and my sister Ashlea showed me how to shop with coupons. I LOVE IT! I'm still learning but was pretty impressed with my first shopping trip to Publix. http://www.southernsavers.com/ & http://www.whosaidnothinginlifeisfree.com/








Morning Smiles: I love walking into Henry's room and I'm greeted with 2 adorabe smiles. Not to happy about the 5 yr old in the crib, but Hunter loves to be the first to see Henry.





My Little Bro: I tell you there is nothing better than siblings! I had fun visiting with my little brother Jason...(who is way taller than me) :). We got to meet up with them at SeaWorld. Jason has been off his mission for a couple weeks. We had fun riding rollercoasters and see shows.





Family Visits: Our family enjoys when Grandma and Papa McFaddin come to visit We got to celebrate Papa Ron's birthday.






span >My Hunter Boy: Spending one on one time wih Hunter.. Thanks to Ashlea and Randy, Hunter and Mommy got to spend the afternoon/evening together at SeaWorld. Hunter rode the rollercoaster ALL BY HIMSELF!!!




Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Scripture Study

I enjoyed this page in the Ensign. It shared 10 tools to studing the scriptures daily. I always need an extra boost and study tools to help me learn. Enjoy!

1. Questions: Ask questions like “What did this prophet want me to know?” or “How can I apply this to my life?” Increased understanding comes as you explore the answers to these questions.

Example: Mosiah 4:14–15.


2. Word definitions: Ancient prophets used words that may be foreign to us. Use the Bible Dictionary, a regular dictionary, and footnotes to understand words and recognize synonyms.

Example: Define the word flaxen in 2 Nephi 26:22.


3. Name substitution: Insert your name for a name or pronoun in the scriptures.

Example: D&C 25:1.


4. Scripture chain: Group or link together scriptures on the same topic and use cross-references to clarify meaning and unlock understanding.

Example: Chain for the law of consecration—D&C 42:30–34; 51:3; 83:1–6.


5. Cause and effect: Look for if/then and because/therefore relationships.

Example: Jeremiah 7:5–7.


6. Words of emphasis or explanation: Words and phrases like behold, wherefore, because, nevertheless, and thus we see are invitations to stop and look for lessons learned or meanings given.

Examples: Helaman 6:35–36; 3 Nephi 18:30–32.


7. Scripture lists: Prophets often gave lists in their warnings and challenges without identifying them in ways we are used to. When you find lists, number each element.

Example: 2 Timothy 3:16–17.


8. Clarification: Define the who, what, when, and where of scriptural events or passages.

Example: Luke 10:25–29.


9. Visualization: Look for descriptive details and create a mental picture as you read. Ask questions about the event and imagine being present when it took place. Try to see it from different points of view.

Example: Acts 3:1–11.


10. Scriptural symbolism: Words such as like, as, or likened unto identify symbols. Look beyond the symbol by exploring its nature and pondering its characteristics or attributes. The Bible Dictionary, Topical Guide, and footnotes can also help you find the interpretation.

Example: Compare Daniel 2:31–35 with Daniel 2:36–45.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Seriously Publix thinks of everything..Kids Lunch.



Did you know that Publix makes Kids Meals? They sell for $3.99 each and are located in the Deli section of the grocery store.


Ham Sandwich Wheat Thin – Publix tavern ham on a wheat sandwich thin, mini carrots, kid’s yogurt and apple juice
Peanut Butter Apple Wrap – creamy peanut butter with apples in a multigrain wrap, string cheese, mini carrots, kid’s yogurt and fruit drink
Turkey Wheat Roll – Publix oven roasted turkey breast on a honey wheat roll, apple and grape packet, mini raisins and organic white milk
Chicken Tender Hawaiian Roll – Publix Deli chicken tenders on a honey wheat roll, mini carrots, kid’s yogurt and fruit drink
Peanut Butter Roll – creamy peanut butter on a honey wheat roll, string cheese, apple sauce, mini carrots and fruit drink

Saturday, September 11, 2010

9/11

Together we pause to remember the victims, grieve with families and friends, and honor the heroes who have sacrificed to save lives and serve their country.




Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Life's Not The Breath You Take

Life’s not the breaths you take
The breathing in and out
That gets you through the day
Ain’t what it’s all about
Ya just might miss the point
Try’n to win the race
Life’s not the breaths you take
But the moments that take your breath away

Wednesday - Early Day!


Oh man it is Wednesday... EARLY DAY at school.

I tell ya I have really enjoyed my "school time". Every thing is in fast forward on Wednesday.

So my list for today is:

Write my Sister Audrey a letter - she is serving a mission in Utah.

Laundry

Music Time/Reading with Henry

Nap for Henry

Read scriptures while Henry naps..

Mop Kitchen Floor

Organize Henry's room

Make "important calls"

It is 8:30.... I have till 12:30.... Ready get set GO!!!!

Do you know who I like the best, Mom?

Hunter came home from school with a great report today. He starts the conversation out with:

Hunter : Mom, guess what my teacher called me today?
Me: What, was it good?
Hunter : Oh yes, she called me "Sweetlove"...

Oh this is huge since it is the beginning of week 3 of lots of different emotions towards his teacher.

The conversation continued...

Hunter: Mom do you know who I like the best?

Me: No, tell me. Who?

Hunter: Well mom I really LOVE Lindsey, but Joel is my best buddy!

Hunter: Today I gave Joel a Hug and told him I loved him... Joel said" Oh that is sweet".

It was good day's report!!! :)

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Just the boys!

Hunter spent the Labor Day afternoon in the woods with his daddy! He got his "boots" on, 4-wheeler hooked up and helped daddy put up tree stands. Helloooo Steve that is really HIGH!!! Oh yeah it is almost hunting season.



Monday, September 6, 2010

Italian Chicken .... yummm


Ingredients
1 can (14-1/2 ounces) diced tomatoes, drained
1 cup (4 ounces) shredded Italian cheese blend or part-skim mozzarella cheese
1/2 teaspoon McCormick® Italian Seasoning
8 thinly sliced boneless skinless chicken breast halves (about 2 pounds)
2 tablespoons olive oil
2/3 cup McCormick® Italian Herb and Cheese Crusting Blend
Directions
In a medium bowl, combine tomatoes, cheese and Italian seasoning. Place 2 tablespoons tomato mixture in the center of each slice of chicken. Roll up chicken to enclose filling. Secure with a toothpick if necessary. Brush with oil. Coat chicken with crusting blend.
Place chicken rolls, seam-side down, in a foil-lined shallow baking pan. Discard any remaining crusting blend. Bake at 375° for 30 minutes or until no longer pink. Yield: 8 servings.

Thursday, September 2, 2010

My Little Bro is home!

Welcome home little brother! Jason went on a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. He served for 2 years in Peru! It was so wonderful surprising him at the airport and getting a big hug! We are so glad to have him back, safe and with lots of amazing stories to share. Oh how we missed him and love him.