Tuesday, February 1, 2011

A season or a lifetime....

As most of you know, I was in a previous marriage over 10 years ago..
Even thou that relationship didn't work out,
I have to count my MANY blessings for
the people that I met while on that path and journey of life.
Just one amazing person I met was Lindsey, I use to teach her in Primary.
I have watched her grow and seen her blossom into a beautiful young woman.
She has loved me, and my sweet family.
Her family is amazing and now even after 10 years our friendship is even stronger.
I'm blessed to have such a sweet young woman in my life.
Last week, Henry and I spent the morning going to lunch,
seeing her family and celebrating her 20th birthday.
I have enjoyed watching her grow and go after her dreams.
I look forward to see her date new guys, get married, and even one day have children.
I'm reminded of the poem, A Season, Reason, or a Lifetime.
I know my sweet friend Lindsey will be my dear friend for a lifetime.
A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or
a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you
will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON . . . It is
usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have
come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you
with guidance and support, to aid you physically,
emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a
godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason
you need them to be.

Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realise is that our need has been met, our
desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you
sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON . . .
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount
of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the
person, and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life. It is said
that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Author Unknown

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